46 Ways to Spot a Cheating Spouse or Partner

Throughout our years of investigative detective experience www.AdvantagePI.com has developed 46 points of interest or behavior that may indicate that your spouse, significant partner, girlfriend or boyfriend maybe be cheating or may be involved in another relationship. We have identified through our in depth case work that one or more of these actions it does not always mean that your partner is definitely cheating, however, targets that are confirmed cheating have generally been observed and documented conducting or exhibiting the following behavior points.

  • Birth-control pills are found in medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.
  • Friends start acting differently toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible spouse or partner you are.)
  • The cheating partner stops confiding or seeking advice from you.
  • The cheating partner creates a new e-mail accounts or multiple accounts
  • The cheating spouse partner leaves the house in the morning smelling like your common soap and returns in the evening smelling like a totally different fragrance.
  • The cheating spouse partner joins a new gym and or begins a new workout regime.
  • The cheating spouse purchases a cell phone that he has not disclosed.
  • The Cheating spouse or partner sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to their office or new p o box.
  • The cheating spouse partner carries condoms in his wallet, overnight bag, or vehicle, even though you are on the pill.
  • The cheating spouse partner begins to delete all incoming phone calls from their caller ID.
  • The cheating spouse partner deletes all incoming e-mails or texts messages from their computer or cell phone.
  • The cheating spouse becomes “accusatory,” towards minor things usually method to disguise their guilt.
  • The cheating spouse or partner sometimes raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?”
  • The cheating spouse buys new or unusual underwear.
  • The cheating spouse partner sometimes insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
  • The cheating spouse stops wearing their wedding ring.
  • The cheating spouse partner sometimes has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
  • The cheating spouse sometimes has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
  • The cheating spouse suddenly wants to try new love making techniques.
  • Cheating spouse partner suddenly stops having sex with their primary partner.
  • The cheating spouse suddenly wants more sex, more often with their partner.
  • The cheating spouse partner purports to work more overtime hours, but it does not reflect with their wages.
  • The cheating spouse partner picks fights in order to have an excuse to leave the house.
  • The cheating spouse used a vacation day or personal time off from work – but reported that they worked on those days.
  • The cheating spouse suddenly expresses an interest in a different type of music.
  • Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
  • Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
  • The cheating spouse or partner spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, particularly after you have gone to bed.
  • The cheating spouse partner throws up a lot because they just ate dinner at with their cheating partner.
  • The cheating spouse or partner is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
  • The cheating spouse or partner is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
  • You observe that the amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
  • You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
  • Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
  • Receive calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
  • The cheating spouse or partner loses attention in activities in the home.
  • Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
  • He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
  • The cheating spouse partner uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
  • The cheating spouse or partner may have a  “glow” about them.
  • Atypical erratic behavior.
  • The cheating spouse or partner may sneak out of the house at odd times.
  • The cheating spouse or partner may sleep with their purse or wallet directly by the bed.
  • The cheating spouse goes to the store for a quick purchase and comes home 5 hours later.
  • The cheating spouse or partner tells you can get hold of them at a different telephone number.
  • The tell tale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.
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